Everybody wants life to be as easy as it can be, passing up chances that could potentially change your life forever. You keep telling yourself that if something is meant to happen, it will without even having to try.
Sometimes you let the your phobias take the best of you, because it just happens to be something out of your comfort zone. It is hard to step out of the box, it is just so comfortable and filled of certainty. Usually you do not stop and think about doing something when you are sure of the outcome; instead it happens automatically but whenever you are presented with a task slightly alien you tend to freak out. You are no longer safe in your cocoon, you are exposed in a way that scares everything.
But if you take a moment and think about it, when does your life change? is it when you go around doing the same thing day in and day out or is it when you do something that might score you for a couple of moments in your life? Your life will not form itself the way you want it unless you take a hold of the opportunities that show themselves to you because what do you really have to lose?